5-24: When the War Comes Home

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On May 24 a documentary on PTSD will be showing at theaters all over the country. Soledad O’Brien produced the piece. I am gladly dedicating this space to print her own words about the film called,

What We Can Do When the War Comes Home

Delon Beckett is wasted while our cameras are rolling on him. He is tripping around his living room drunk while his three-year-old daughter, Jayla, tries to wrestle. She hits his groin so he pushes her away, then he makes for the staircase. He knocks over some books and settles down in the second floor of his suburban house as his wife, Emme, tries to calm down the kids who are looking up the stairs scared.

“I used to see, you know, a hammer and then all of the sudden I would just think about picking up that hammer and just smashing their brains in,” says Beckett, an Iraq war veteran at the center of my documentary, The War Comes Home. “And I’m just like sitting there like … this is getting ridiculous.”

What our cameras captured for our documentary are the sad, damaging effects of the war on some veterans who live with Post-Traumatic Stress like Beckett….

300 Cinemas, May 24

Now, in an effort to increase awareness around that topic and the many other needs of veterans, The War Comes Home, produced in association with MediaStorm, will be airing in 300 cinemas nationwide on May 24th. The screening is followed by a pre-taped panel discussion of experts and advocates who take the conversation beyond PTS to other veteran’s issues. The event is presented by Fathom Events, a partnership between the three largest theater circuits in the U.S. so you can see it in a theater near you anywhere in the country.

I worked with Fathom to get The War Comes Home onto a big screen because I want everyone to see how Beckett and our other characters live with PTS and the novel approaches being taken to address their pain and, sometimes, suicidal or homicidal thoughts. I want everyone to take a look at the services being offered vets and ask how they can help. I want people to appreciate how much we owe to the men and women who went to fight our wars and lost so much doing it.

“The outer shell of him came back,” his wife, Emme, told us about her husband’s return from the war. “But everything on the inside was dead.”

Unacceptable Cost of War Stress

Nearly 8,000 veterans of all wars buckle from the stress and kill themselves each year. So far in the fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan, there have been 6,802 veterans killed in action or in accidents, according to Costs of War, a Brown University project tracking those wars. Suicides are particularly high among Vietnam veterans.

In my documentary, Beckett’s drinking escalates until he desperately reaches out to a program called Save a Warrior. The program is a five-and-a-half day emotional bootcamp run by veteran Jake Clark that used group exercises, therapy and counseling, transcendental meditation and equine therapy in an attempt to pull participants back from the brink of suicide.

Programs like these are beneficial because many soldiers will not seek out traditional avenues of assistance like the VA….

In our documentary, our main characters have exhausted clinical settings and medication. Save a Warrior emerges as one of the non-clinical settings that lives outside the world of traditional veterans services. It is one of many examples of new approaches to this problem.

Jake Clark, who runs Save a Warrior, says his program’s strength lies, in part, in staffing the five-and-a-half day experience with counselors who have faced demons in their own recovery from war trauma.

I asked Clark who he thinks will save this generation of warriors from the obstacles they face. Without hesitation, he said: “They will. They’ll save each other. We can’t save them all, but together they can all save themselves.”

Meditation Helps Some

It will make all the difference to people like Beckett, who is still making his way back from the war. He returned from Save a Warrior having embraced meditation. He went to playgroup with the same daughter he once feared he might harm, was loving with his wife and dumped bottles of alcohol into the sink in front of his family. I hope that after watching this film you will want to help other vets transform their lives in big and small ways.

“The meditation keeps me sober,” Beckett said of the central technique in the program he attended. “It was only five-and-a-half days but I learned things for my whole life.” One of the things he learned was that there is power in sharing your problems with others. Once you’ve watched this movie you have the power to spread his story further, and to step up to help.

2 thoughts on “5-24: When the War Comes Home”

  1. Not airing in a theater near me. Wonder if it will be shown on tv at some point. Please post if information comes out.

    1. I looked unsuccessfully also. I e-mailed the production co. but did not receive a reply. If you, Jen, or anyone finds a listing, maybe on cable TV, please let us know.
      –paul

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